could it be could it be
that you're joking with me
and you don't really see you with me.

you always end up paying a price for being genuine. an illusion is what the world wants. give it to them. everyone must fit into a stereotype. you can be an individual, as long as you fit into a character dreamt/ fantasized about.

women. they want everything. they want a ripped 6' 2" stud with a 8" dick and knows how to use it, who is a complete bad boy. gets into fights (and wins), is aggressive, both in his demeanor and in bed, and doesn't take any shit from anyone, and earns a shit load of money cause he's intelligent and hardworking and really funny. added talents like being able to serenade her are optional but not essential. yet at the same time is super sensitive, never raises his voice when he's talking to her, caters to her every whim like a pet poodle, and can take endless crap dished out by her without losing his cool. its not realistic.

guys. they want everything. they want a 5' 8" woman with beautiful hair, head-turning looks and a super-models figure (but with bigger boobs), who earns a lot of money cause she's intelligent, is a supportive girlfriend and wife who never puts any pressure on you to earn too much as long as you're happy, can cook wonderfully well, is dynamite in bed and will try every nasty little thing he can think of, and will let him spend his money on things he wants, like bikes and cars. its not realistic.

here lies the problem. its never going to happen. if the chicks hot, she cooks awful, or not too bright, or not very loving/caring. if she's sweet, she is useless in bed. if a guys ultra aggressive, he's in jail, and won't earn any money. if he's calm, and a wimp, she won't find him hot and go and fuck some guy who is ripped, while still living with the wimp because he earns a lot of money and gives her security.

unless everyone starts wanting a little less, nobody is going to be happy. and the moment that happens, there is no motivation to improve, there is no progress in life, their is no self improvement, there is nothing. unless we want, we can never get, innovate, achieve.

its all messed up.